absence makes the heart grow fonder vs long absent, soon forgotten

absence makes the heart grow fonder

proverb
  • When someone or something is far away, one realizes how much one loves or misses them or it. 

long absent, soon forgotten

proverb
  • Love fades away when people are distant and don't keep close physical contact 

How often have the words absence makes the heart grow fonder and long absent, soon forgotten occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )