against the grain vs demurring

against the grain

prep
  • Unwillingly, reluctantly; contrary to one's nature. 

  • Contrary to what is expected; especially, of behavior different from what society expects. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see against, the, grain. 

  • Preventing a smooth, level surface from being formed by raising the nap of the wood or causing larger splinters to form ahead of the cutting tool below the cutting surface. 

demurring

noun
  • demurral 

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