ask for it vs exasperate

ask for it

verb
  • To provoke an unwanted action. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see ask for, it. 

exasperate

verb
  • To tax the patience of; irk, frustrate, vex, provoke, annoy; to make angry. 

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