back off vs destress

back off

verb
  • To lower the setting of. 

  • To become less aggressive, particularly when one had appeared committed to act. 

  • To move backwards away from something. 

  • You need to back off, or the situation could turn ugly. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see back, off. 

destress

verb
  • To reduce emphasis. 

  • To reduce the stresses in a material. 

  • To reduce the stress in oneself or another person. 

How often have the words back off and destress occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )