be with vs go by the wayside

be with

verb
  • To be down with (something); believe in, like, or espouse. 

  • To have sex with. 

  • To date or be boyfriend/girlfriend with. 

  • To understand someone's point or intention. 

  • To agree with someone. 

go by the wayside

verb
  • To become obsolete or outmoded. 

How often have the words be with and go by the wayside occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )