be with vs hammer home

be with

verb
  • To understand someone's point or intention. 

  • To have sex with. 

  • To date or be boyfriend/girlfriend with. 

  • To be down with (something); believe in, like, or espouse. 

  • To agree with someone. 

hammer home

verb
  • To repeatedly or continually emphasise (an opinion or idea) until or so that a person or group of people understands it. 

How often have the words be with and hammer home occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )