bear oneself vs fit in

bear oneself

verb
  • To behave and conduct oneself in such a manner that others will give one respect. 

fit in

verb
  • To be of a like type with others; to be socially accepted. 

  • To suit or conform to. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see fit, in. 

How often have the words bear oneself and fit in occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )