behave oneself vs let in

behave oneself

verb
  • To act in a polite or proper way. 

let in

verb
  • To let someone or something come in; to admit someone or something in. 

  • To associate with. 

  • To divulge one's inner thoughts to (someone), making oneself emotionally vulnerable to them; to open up to (someone). 

How often have the words behave oneself and let in occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )