bitter pill vs cross to bear

bitter pill

noun
  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see bitter, pill. 

cross to bear

noun
  • A problem, or unpleasant or painful situation or person that you have to accept and deal with, although you find it very difficult, or it causes trouble or worry for you over a long period of time. 

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