belittle vs cajole

belittle

verb
  • To knowingly say that something is smaller or less important than it actually is, especially as a way of showing contempt or deprecation. 

cajole

noun
  • The act of cajoling 

verb
  • To persuade someone to do something which they are reluctant to do, especially by flattery or promises; to coax. 

How often have the words belittle and cajole occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )