cajole vs discourage

cajole

verb
  • To persuade someone to do something which they are reluctant to do, especially by flattery or promises; to coax. 

noun
  • The act of cajoling 

discourage

verb
  • To persuade somebody not to do (something). 

  • To extinguish the courage of; to dishearten; to depress the spirits of; to deprive of confidence; to deject. 

noun
  • Lack of courage 

How often have the words cajole and discourage occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )