cajole vs urge

cajole

verb
  • To persuade someone to do something which they are reluctant to do, especially by flattery or promises; to coax. 

noun
  • The act of cajoling 

urge

verb
  • To put mental pressure on; to ply with motives, arguments, persuasion, or importunity. 

  • To press; to push; to drive; to impel; to force onward. 

  • To present in an urgent manner; to insist upon. 

  • To press onward or forward. 

  • To be pressing in argument; to insist; to persist. 

  • To provoke; to exasperate. 

  • To press hard upon; to follow closely. 

noun
  • A strong desire; an itch to do something. 

How often have the words cajole and urge occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )