co-mother vs grandparent

co-mother

noun
  • In polygamy, a wife of one's father who is not one's mother; that is, co-wife of one's mother. 

  • In polygamy, the relationship between one co-wife and another, in respect to their children. 

  • In a lesbian couple, the nonbirth mother (partner of the birth mother) of a child, especially one who takes an equal role in mothering the child. 

grandparent

noun
  • the parent of someone's parent 

verb
  • Synonym of grandfather 

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