co-mother vs stepfather

co-mother

noun
  • In polygamy, a wife of one's father who is not one's mother; that is, co-wife of one's mother. 

  • In polygamy, the relationship between one co-wife and another, in respect to their children. 

  • In a lesbian couple, the nonbirth mother (partner of the birth mother) of a child, especially one who takes an equal role in mothering the child. 

stepfather

noun
  • A husband of one's biological mother after her initial marriage to or relationship with one's biological father. 

  • A husband of one's parent distinct from one's biological father 

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