co-mother vs wife-in-law

co-mother

noun
  • In polygamy, a wife of one's father who is not one's mother; that is, co-wife of one's mother. 

  • In polygamy, the relationship between one co-wife and another, in respect to their children. 

  • In a lesbian couple, the nonbirth mother (partner of the birth mother) of a child, especially one who takes an equal role in mothering the child. 

wife-in-law

noun
  • Another wife of one's husband. Typically used in cases of divorce and subsequent remarriage for one's husband's ex-wife, but sometimes used in polygamy for a co-wife. 

  • A wife who provides domestic or social support, but not love or affection 

  • A wife in law only, such as one who has abandoned her husband 

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