come to grips vs jostle

come to grips

verb
  • To attempt to face or resolve an internal contradiction or difficulty. 

  • To confront each other decisively. 

jostle

verb
  • To contend or vie in order to acquire something. 

  • To bump into or brush against while in motion; to push aside. 

  • To move through by pushing and shoving. 

  • To be close to or in physical contact with. 

noun
  • The action of a jostling crowd. 

  • The act of jostling someone or something; push, shove. 

How often have the words come to grips and jostle occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )