condolences vs tenderness

condolences

noun
  • comfort, support, or sympathy offered especially to the family and friends of somebody who has died. 

intj
  • Expressing sympathy to someone, especially after learning of a close death. 

tenderness

noun
  • a tendency to express warm, compassionate feelings 

  • pain or discomfort when an affected area is touched 

  • concern for the feelings or welfare of others 

How often have the words condolences and tenderness occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )