destress vs soft-pedal

destress

verb
  • To reduce emphasis. 

  • To reduce the stresses in a material. 

  • To reduce the stress in oneself or another person. 

soft-pedal

verb
  • To reduce the force or impact of (something); to damp, to mute; especially, to minimize the less desirable aspects of (something); to play down, to tone down. 

  • To attempt to persuade someone about (something) through understatement, so that the listener accepts the good points as obvious. 

  • To reduce the volume of (music, a sound, etc.). 

  • Chiefly followed by on: to act in a less assertive or forceful manner. 

How often have the words destress and soft-pedal occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )