diplomacy vs good manners

diplomacy

noun
  • Tact and subtle skill in dealing with people so as to avoid or settle hostility. 

  • The art and practice of conducting international relations by negotiating alliances, treaties, agreements etc., bilaterally or multilaterally, between states and sometimes international organizations, or even between polities with varying status, such as those of monarchs and their princely vassals. 

good manners

noun
  • The treatment of other people with courtesy and politeness, and showing correct public behaviour. 

How often have the words diplomacy and good manners occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )