disdainful vs gracious

disdainful

adj
  • Showing contempt or scorn; having a pronounced lack of concern for others viewed as unworthy. 

gracious

adj
  • magnanimous, without arrogance or complaint, benevolently declining to raise controversy or insist on possible prerogatives. 

  • benignant 

  • indulgent, charming and graceful 

  • compassionate 

  • elegant and with good taste 

  • kind and warmly courteous 

  • full of grace 

  • tactful 

intj
  • Expression of surprise, contempt, outrage, disgust, boredom, or frustration. 

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