erode vs grind down

erode

verb
  • To wear away by abrasion, corrosion or chemical reaction. 

  • To destroy gradually by an ongoing process. 

grind down

verb
  • To make something hard smaller and smoother by gradually rubbing off tiny bits, to wear down. 

  • To weaken someone's morale over a long period. 

How often have the words erode and grind down occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )