Seeking favor by way of flattery; flattering, servile.
Servile flattery.
kind and warmly courteous
benignant
indulgent, charming and graceful
compassionate
elegant and with good taste
full of grace
magnanimous, without arrogance or complaint, benevolently declining to raise controversy or insist on possible prerogatives.
tactful
Expression of surprise, contempt, outrage, disgust, boredom, or frustration.