fondling vs forbearance

fondling

noun
  • The act of caressing; manifestation of tenderness. 

  • A pet or person who is fondled; someone who is much loved. 

forbearance

noun
  • Patient self-control; restraint and tolerance under provocation. 

  • A refraining from the enforcement of something (as a debt, right, or obligation) that is due. 

How often have the words fondling and forbearance occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )