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get ahold of oneself
vs
keep one's shirt on
get ahold of oneself
verb
To calm down; to stop behaving in an erratic way.
keep one's shirt on
verb
To be more patient; to calm down.
How often have the words
get ahold of oneself
and
keep one's shirt on
occurred in a corpus of books?
(source:
Google Ngram Viewer
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