gloat vs rub it in

gloat

verb
  • To exhibit a conspicuous (sometimes malevolent) pleasure or sense of self-satisfaction, often at an adversary's misfortune. 

  • To triumph, crow, relish, glory, revel. 

noun
  • An act or instance of gloating. 

rub it in

verb
  • To add insult to injury; to emphasize one's strengths or another's weaknesses in a manner that degrades another. 

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