go with the flow vs rebuff

go with the flow

verb
  • To act as others are acting, conforming to common behavior patterns with an attitude of calm acceptance. 

rebuff

verb
  • To refuse; to offer sudden or harsh resistance; to turn down or shut out. 

  • To buff again. 

noun
  • Repercussion, or beating back. 

  • He was surprised by her quick rebuff to his proposal. 

  • A sudden resistance or refusal. 

How often have the words go with the flow and rebuff occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )