grind down vs hold down

grind down

verb
  • To weaken someone's morale over a long period. 

  • To make something hard smaller and smoother by gradually rubbing off tiny bits, to wear down. 

hold down

verb
  • To restrain; to check. 

  • To continue, to hold and to manage well. 

How often have the words grind down and hold down occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )