grind down vs push around

grind down

verb
  • To weaken someone's morale over a long period. 

  • To make something hard smaller and smoother by gradually rubbing off tiny bits, to wear down. 

push around

verb
  • To treat contemptuously and unfairly; to bully 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see push, around. 

How often have the words grind down and push around occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )