grind down vs wear down

grind down

verb
  • To weaken someone's morale over a long period. 

  • To make something hard smaller and smoother by gradually rubbing off tiny bits, to wear down. 

wear down

verb
  • To eventually persuade or defeat (someone) through persistent effort. 

  • To cause (someone) physical or mental fatigue. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see wear, down. 

How often have the words grind down and wear down occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )