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get someone's dander up
vs
harsh one's mellow
get someone's dander up
verb
To anger or annoy someone.
harsh one's mellow
verb
To spoil one's good mood or to annoy one.
How often have the words
get someone's dander up
and
harsh one's mellow
occurred in a corpus of books?
(source:
Google Ngram Viewer
)