have an affair vs lead on

have an affair

verb
  • To engage in a romantic or sexual relationship while being married. 

lead on

verb
  • to encourage with the illusion of a romantic relationship. 

  • to mislead, to try to make someone believe a lie. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see lead, on. 

How often have the words have an affair and lead on occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )