coax vs henpeck

coax

verb
  • To wheedle or persuade (a person, organisation, animal etc.) gradually or by use of flattery to do something. 

  • To carefully manipulate (someone or something) into a particular desired state, situation or position. 

henpeck

verb
  • To nag persistently. 

noun
  • A man who is meekly subservient to his wife. 

How often have the words coax and henpeck occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )