charming vs hurtful

charming

adj
  • Delightful in a playful way which avoids responsibility or seriousness, as if attracting through a magical charm. 

  • Pleasant, charismatic. 

noun
  • The casting of a magical charm. 

hurtful

adj
  • Tending to hurt someone's feelings; insulting. 

  • Tending to impair or damage; injurious; occasioning loss or injury. 

How often have the words charming and hurtful occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )