in-joke vs pleasantry

in-joke

noun
  • Synonym of inside joke (“a joke that is understood or meant to be understood only by certain people who are aware of the details”) 

pleasantry

noun
  • A playful remark; a jest. 

  • A casual, courteous remark. 

How often have the words in-joke and pleasantry occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )