intimacy vs urge to merge

intimacy

noun
  • Feeling or atmosphere of closeness and openness towards someone else, not necessarily involving sexuality. 

  • Intimate relationship. 

  • Intimate detail, (item of) intimate information. 

urge to merge

noun
  • A strong desire to form intense emotional connections, stereotypically associated with lesbians. 

How often have the words intimacy and urge to merge occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )