hold it together vs lose one's shit

hold it together

verb
  • Synonym of cope: to remain calm in adversity, to successfully manage one's difficulties. 

lose one's shit

verb
  • To lose one's temper. 

  • To have a sudden burst of emotion, regardless of the type of feeling. 

  • To break down in laughter. 

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