forget oneself vs lose the plot

forget oneself

verb
  • To become unmindful of one's own personality; to be lost in thought. 

  • to lose one's dignity, temper, or self-control. 

lose the plot

verb
  • To lose sight of an important objective or principle; to act contrarily to one's own interests through concentrating on relatively unimportant matters. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see lose, plot. 

  • To cease to behave in a consistent and/or rational manner. 

How often have the words forget oneself and lose the plot occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )