dalliance vs notch on one's bedpost

dalliance

noun
  • A sexual relationship, not serious but often illicit. 

  • Playful flirtation; amorous play. 

  • A wasting of time in idleness or trifles. 

  • A episode of dabbling. 

notch on one's bedpost

noun
  • A sexual conquest; a casual sexual partner. 

How often have the words dalliance and notch on one's bedpost occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )