notch on one's bedpost vs relationship

notch on one's bedpost

noun
  • A sexual conquest; a casual sexual partner. 

relationship

noun
  • A romantic or sexual involvement. 

  • The level or degree of affinity between keys, chords and tones. 

  • The links between the x-values and y-values of ordered pairs of numbers especially coordinates. 

  • Connection or association; the condition of being related. 

  • Kinship; being related by blood or marriage. 

  • A way in which two or more people behave and are involved with each other 

How often have the words notch on one's bedpost and relationship occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )