paternalistic vs softhearted

paternalistic

adj
  • the quality of being paternal, i.e. like a father, e.g. characterized by behaving in benevolent and yet intrusive manner towards underlings 

  • of, pertaining to, characteristic of or practicing paternalism 

softhearted

adj
  • Gentle; kind; sympathetic. 

  • Willing to accept criticism. 

  • Easily moved to sorrow or pity. 

How often have the words paternalistic and softhearted occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )