politeness vs refinement

politeness

noun
  • An act of politeness. 

  • The quality of being polite. 

refinement

noun
  • A fine or subtle distinction. 

  • The act, or the result of refining; the removal of impurities, or a purified material 

  • High-class style; cultivation. 

How often have the words politeness and refinement occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )