hurtful vs possessive

hurtful

• Tending to hurt someone's feelings; insulting. 

• Tending to impair or damage; injurious; occasioning loss or injury. 

possessive

• Of or pertaining to ownership or possession. 

• Unwilling to yield possession of. 

• Indicating ownership, possession, origin, etc. 

• A word used to indicate the possessive case. 

• The possessive case.