defy vs quarrel with

defy

verb
  • To challenge (someone) or brave (a hazard or opposition). 

  • To refuse to obey. 

  • To not conform to or follow a pattern, set of rules or expectations. 

quarrel with

verb
  • To dispute (an issue or fact). 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see quarrel, with, to argue with (someone). 

How often have the words defy and quarrel with occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )