self-abnegation vs shyness

self-abnegation

noun
  • The denial or invalidation of one's own needs, interests, etc. for the sake of another's; the setting aside of self-interest. 

  • An act of self-denial. 

shyness

noun
  • The quality of being shy; a fear of social interactions. 

How often have the words self-abnegation and shyness occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )