forbear vs self-control

forbear

verb
  • To control oneself when provoked. 

  • To refuse; to decline; to withsay; to unheed. 

  • To keep away from; to avoid; to abstain from. 

  • To refrain from proceeding; to pause; to delay. 

self-control

verb
  • To control oneself or itself. 

noun
  • The ability to control one's desires and impulses; willpower. 

How often have the words forbear and self-control occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )