soothing vs upsetting

soothing

adj
  • Giving relief. 

  • Freeing from fear or anxiety. 

  • Tending to soothe. 

noun
  • The act by which somebody is soothed. 

upsetting

adj
  • Causing upset; distressing. 

  • Conceited; presumptuous. 

noun
  • The action of the verb upset. 

How often have the words soothing and upsetting occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )