affectionate vs standoffish

affectionate

verb
  • To show affection to; to have affection for. 

adj
  • Characterised by or proceeding from affection; indicating love; tender. 

  • Having affection or warm regard; loving; fond. 

standoffish

adj
  • Aloof; reserved; unsociable and unfriendly. 

How often have the words affectionate and standoffish occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )