boss around vs submit

boss around

verb
  • To act in a bossy manner with another person, ordering them to do things, whether or not one is actually their superior. 

submit

verb
  • To yield (something) to another, as when defeated. 

  • To win a fight against (an opponent) by submission. 

  • To enter or put forward for approval, consideration, marking etc. 

  • To yield or give way to another. 

  • To subject; to put through a process. 

How often have the words boss around and submit occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )