tormenting vs upsetting

tormenting

adj
  • Involving or causing torment. 

noun
  • The act by which somebody is tormented. 

upsetting

adj
  • Causing upset; distressing. 

  • Conceited; presumptuous. 

noun
  • The action of the verb upset. 

How often have the words tormenting and upsetting occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )