bothersome vs upsetting

bothersome

adj
  • Causing trouble, annoyance, inconvenience, irritation, or perplexity. 

upsetting

adj
  • Causing upset; distressing. 

  • Conceited; presumptuous. 

noun
  • The action of the verb upset. 

How often have the words bothersome and upsetting occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )